Spidey Senses Triggered

This mantid seemed appropriate. Draw your own conclusions.

 If someone describes themselves as honest, are they telling the truth?

My gut reaction says, “um, no.” Whenever I hear someone boast about their straight-shooting honest, I immediately suspect they are trying to sell me on something. With an unfortunate level of frequency, my suspicion is correct.

In other words, I find it easier to trust someone who is less-than confident about their honesty. The most honest people I know wouldn’t describe themselves as honest, mostly because they are honest enough to be mindful of the times they aren’t completely genuine.

The same goes for a whole slew of other character traits. Truly talented people are aware of their gaps. Really intelligent people don’t need to talk about being smart all the time. Same goes with folks claiming insight, discernment, and intuitiveness.

I think most people who advertise their character traits like this are insecure, trying to project their desired personality instead of their authentic self. They are arguably uncomfortable with themselves. I try not to judge but I totally judge. At least certain people; the ones who bulldoze others with their toxic positivity and flowery, self-promoting language.

People are messy and that’s okay. I understand why someone would want to hide their flaws - I know I try to! – but I don’t understand why so many people prefer the image of perfection and integrity. Real people are so much more interesting. Including the people wearing the masks.

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